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09 March 2011 @ 14:58
What have you you done today to make you feel proud  

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This afternoon I sent my sister a text message telling her my feelings about coming into my home on Friday night and getting drunk.
I decided to confront her this way cos I knew that if it was done face to face then I would either leave some thing out or possibly go mad,so instead,I did it this way.
This is what I said.

"I want to express my anger at what you did on Friday night,coming into my home and getting drunk with your friend,you had no right to do that,you can get drunk if you choose to anywhere else but you will never again do that in my home,do I make myself clear,I have put up with drunks and shit all my life and im not doing it any more,im sick of it"

A few minutes later she phoned my mom telling her to tell me she was sorry and it won't happen again and she understands that I feel that way.
We have decided not to mention this to my father who would be just as furious as I was cos he really believes in respecting peoples homes and wishes (thats probably where I get it from).

I just want to say thanks for everyones kind words and support on this,you guys have been my rock over this weekend and I would have gone crazy had it not have been for all of you,so thanks.
Vonnie
xoxoxo
 
 
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Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:12 (UTC)
Thanks baby,im proud of myself too,cos I really don't like hurting peoples feelings,and thankfully didn't hurt hers by saying it how I did :)
Vonnie
xoxox
buzziecat: 2 yellow butterfliesbuzziecat on 7th March 2010 16:01 (UTC)
I'm proud of you too, Vonnie.
I think your sister may respect you for speaking your mind.
xoxoxo
buzzie
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:13 (UTC)
Thanks buzzie,im thinking (hopeing) that now too :)
Vonnie
xoxox
7WildWaysUp7wildwaysup on 7th March 2010 16:50 (UTC)
Bravo Baby you got your feelings out and she was even responsive and apologetic... That's progress...

I'm so proud of you, and her as well I think there may be hope. Change is hard and at least she's trying... That's big...

Love you Sister ~ Kathleen
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:14 (UTC)
Thanks hon,im just glad its over and my house is my own again,its so peaceful now,
Later sister
Vonnie
xoxox
shadownycshadownyc on 7th March 2010 17:43 (UTC)
I hope your sister will continue to remember to respect your feelings. You're a very important and lovely, caring person. *Hugs*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:16 (UTC)
Thanks alot carolyn honey,you are a wonderful friend on my flist and I value your opinion alot.
Vonnie
xoxox
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Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:17 (UTC)
Thanks so much,im so happy at how it all turned out in the end.
Vonnie
xoxox
a_life_defianta_life_defiant on 7th March 2010 21:43 (UTC)
Glad it went ok! I'm proud of you standing your ground and speaking up. *hugs*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 7th March 2010 21:50 (UTC)
Thanks honey,im so tired,its been a long weekend.
Vonnie
xoxox
sandra_qafsandra_qaf on 8th March 2010 08:30 (UTC)
Glad you got this sorted...not been around much this weekend so did not know
later x
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 8th March 2010 14:56 (UTC)
Im glad its sorted,its been nothing but a pain in the butt the whole weekend,hope yours was nice.
Vonnie
xoxox
Lynspike7451 on 8th March 2010 11:57 (UTC)
Go you...so proud of you!!!!!!
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 8th March 2010 14:56 (UTC)
Thanks Lyn
Vonnie
xoxox