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28 December 2010 @ 15:00
How things are going  

Yesterday was difficult,we had to wait for my nieces daddy to be brought home,he didn't get to his house until after 11 pm last night,it was such a long day for everyone.
My niece wanted to go to see him at his house last night after they brung him home and the poor wee lass was just in an unbearable state when she returned,it was after 1 am,she didn't sleep last night at all,shes only 14 years old its so sad here.
I made sure she knows im here if she needs me for anything but thankfully she has others around that are helping her as much as she needs right now,im just lurking in the back ground.
We still don't know the cause of his passing yet.
Last night was very hard for everyone,I stayed at home as im not good at wakes or funerals at all,id be crying all over the place and no one needs to see that at all,im not even crying infront of Jordan as she doesn't need to see that either,and its not easy when shes crying herself cos I just want to cry with her.
Im trying so hard to be strong for her cos she needs that,and alot or reasureance I think.
Shes going over today again some time,I think its good for her to see him and know that hes safe and happy with God in heaven,where he will be waiting when she goes there.
location: at home
mood: restlessrestless
Lynspike7451 on 28th January 2010 15:28 (UTC)
What a sad, stressful time it is for everyone. So hard for your niece to lose her father at only 14. I'm glad she has you and others there to support her at this terrible time. *hugs* you all.
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 15:44 (UTC)
Its a very sad time for her,for everyone
Thanks for the hugs
Michael Owns Me: HugKitchenforeverbm on 28th January 2010 15:40 (UTC)
Your niece is very lucky to have you and all of her family around at this dreadful time.

I emailed you earlier.

Remember we are here when you need us &hearts
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 16:12 (UTC)
Thanks Viv,just replied to your email
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Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 16:11 (UTC)
shadownycshadownyc on 28th January 2010 16:20 (UTC)
I can't imagine the shock of this sudden passing... and not to know why is even worse.

I know you'll be there for your niece -- you're such a good, caring person!

brainofjb on 28th January 2010 16:23 (UTC)
This is so sad and I'm so sorry for your niece, you and everyone else in the family. *hugs you tight*

Allison Stephensastephens1971 on 28th January 2010 16:50 (UTC)
still praying for everyone (you too)... I lost my mom at 14 (within 2 months of my 15th birthday) as well so I know how she feels... *hugs you and cries*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 17:54 (UTC)
Its very sad for any child to lose a parent,im sorry for your loss too hon.
My niece actually just turned 14 on new years day.
Thanks for being supportive hon.
Karen: kiss with rayskhaywren on 28th January 2010 17:42 (UTC)
I'm sorry to hear about your family. My thoughts are with you, Yvonne. And happy belated birthday to you!
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 19:33 (UTC)
Thanks so much
mitakaymitakay on 28th January 2010 18:53 (UTC)
You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers-
Hang in there hon.
**big squishy hugs**
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 19:30 (UTC)
Many thanks hon,hugs you back.
sexy_pumpkin: Brian roses Sexy Psexy_pumpkin on 28th January 2010 19:54 (UTC)
So sad for you all, how old was he & what happened,,I guess I missed it all whilst I was away:(

Prayers & love to you all,,Jx
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 20:04 (UTC)
Thanks Jackie,he was walking to a friends house,crossing a river,they say he tripped and hit his head and drowened,its so sad,he was 34.
sexy_pumpkin: Brian getting a hug from Deb 410sexy_pumpkin on 28th January 2010 21:22 (UTC)
OMG thats so sad :(

Tragic & so young. Im so very sorry, what can you say,,God bless,,Jx

Hugs you
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 22:33 (UTC)
Thanks so much Jackie,you guys are my rock these last couple of days and thats the honest truth.
arwensong: A Candle Lit By Beatrix to Bring Hopearwensong on 28th January 2010 20:12 (UTC)
I am thinking of you and sending you strengthening thoughts sweetie. Don't be afraid of crying with your niece, sometimes it is the best thing you can do, as it lets her know that it is okay to cry.
There is a time to weep and a time to laugh and this is definitely one of those times for tears.


Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 28th January 2010 20:41 (UTC)
Thanks so much Arwen hon,its going to be a very tough time to come for her and indeed everyone,im just very numb right now.
luvbrian on 29th January 2010 00:33 (UTC)
Oh my dear...you are a wonderful aunt, being so supportive to your grieving niece and family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find out exactly what happened; perhaps that will bring you all some sense of closure.

Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 29th January 2010 13:17 (UTC)
Thank you,im trying to be strong for my niece,especially today as hes being buried.
buzziecatbuzziecat on 29th January 2010 01:29 (UTC)
Terrible and so sad. I hope you all find comfort in each other Yvonne. You are in my thoughts.
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 29th January 2010 13:18 (UTC)
Thanks buzzie,you are a good friend.