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26 December 2010 @ 22:25
Such a sad evening  
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Last night I found out that my niece Jordans daddy was missing for a week.
No one said anything to me about it,they put him in the paper and everything.
This evening his body was found near bushes by the local swimming pool,everyone here is like a zombie,including myself I just can't take it in at all.
Jordan and her mom (my sister) are staying here tonight,it just doesn't feel real at all.
Jordan just turned 14 on the first of this month,shes so young to lose her dad,he was her rock,they were very close
I hugged her and kissed her and told her how sorry I was when she came here earlier but im just no good at this sort of thing.
I don't know how to help her.
 
 
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arwensong: A Candle Lit By Beatrix to Bring Hopearwensong on 26th January 2010 22:55 (UTC)
I am so sorry, my prayers will be with your niece and your whole family. What a terrible shock!

Hugs,

Arwen
Allison Stephensastephens1971 on 26th January 2010 23:03 (UTC)
*** hugs *** for you and your niece... :(
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buzziecat: 2 yellow butterfliesbuzziecat on 26th January 2010 23:08 (UTC)
That's terrible Yvonne. How awful for everyone.
You don't have to do anything special. Just be there to listen and let them know you care. That's mostly what we all can do.
And, you do care.
So sorry.

Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:59 (UTC)
I hate every kind of hurt towards people but something like this can't be avoided.
I guess just being there for my niece and sis is all I can do.
xoxox
brainofjb on 26th January 2010 23:11 (UTC)
I'm so sorry, Yvonne. *hugs you tight*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:58 (UTC)
Thank you for your support hon.
xoxox
7WildWaysUp7wildwaysup on 26th January 2010 23:12 (UTC)
My heart goes out to you and your family...

Life sometimes doesn't make any sense...

I'm so sorry Baby... Tears... Hugs... ~ K
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:57 (UTC)
None of this makes any sense to me at all,he was such a great father to Jordan and her idol in a way,she adored the ground he walked on.
Thanks for your support hon.
xoxox
a_life_defianta_life_defiant on 26th January 2010 23:48 (UTC)
Oh my god. I can't even imagine what you're going through right now.

*hugs you tight* I am so sorry this has happened. My sincerest condolences Yvonne. Keeping you & your family in my thoughts & prayers.
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:46 (UTC)
Thanks for your support
xoxox
mitakaymitakay on 27th January 2010 00:04 (UTC)
Oh sweetie-
I am so sorry for your family and their loss. What a horrible tragedy; life can be so unfair sometimes. Just be there for your niece and sister, available to talk, hug and cry whenever they need to. Your niece is lucky to have an Aunt like you who cares so much about her. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

**hugs you really tight**
-Terri
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:46 (UTC)
Thanks so much Terri,that sounds like a plan,im very grateful for the support.
xoxox
luvbrian on 27th January 2010 00:58 (UTC)
Oh my God - what a tragic thing to have happened. Please accept my deepest condolences. ((Hugs you & your family))
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:44 (UTC)
Thanks hon,thats very kind of you.
xoxox
snowmoresnowmore on 27th January 2010 01:04 (UTC)
Yvonne!

OMG!!! I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry for the pain your niece is in. I am sending you wishes of comforting spirits in the hope you will be able to help her through this terrible time in her life.

Take care, Yvonne. *hugs*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:43 (UTC)
Everytime I look at her I want to cry and she is trying so hard infront of us all not to cry.
Thanks for the support.
xoxox
positive_patpositive_pat on 27th January 2010 01:35 (UTC)
I am so sorry this has happened. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts & prayers. Stay stong for your neice and just be there if she needs you.

*Hugs you very very tight*

Hugs
Pat
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:42 (UTC)
Thank Pat,I can do that for her.
xoxox
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Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:41 (UTC)
Thanks,it was such a shock to one minute find out he was missing and then hear they found a body that needed to be identified and then finding out it was him,he was such a nice person.
Thanks for the support.
xoxox
Chris: *011 Kitty Hugsankaree on 27th January 2010 03:08 (UTC)
Oh, Yvonne, how awful!! I'm so sorry to hear that. Just being there for her and offering a shoulder to cry on is the best you can do.

Take care, hon *hugs you tight*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:38 (UTC)
Thank you hon,I guess thats all I can do.
xoxox
Michael Owns Me: HugKitchenforeverbm on 27th January 2010 04:03 (UTC)
Oh Yvonne I am so sorry to hear this sad news.

My thoughts and love are with you and your family

*hugs*
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:38 (UTC)
Thanks Viv,its going to be a rough week for all.
xoxox
shadownycshadownyc on 27th January 2010 11:18 (UTC)
OMG! That's so horrible. *HUGS* My deepest support goes to you and your family.

Just being their for your sister and Jordan will help. They'll need the people they love close.
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:37 (UTC)
Thanks Carolyn,I guess you are right,just hugging her and seeing if she needs anything is all I can do,she knows I love her and would do anything for her.
xoxox
masterglory on 27th January 2010 11:57 (UTC)
I'm so sorry for you and your family, especially for little Jordan.

The simple fact that you're wondering how to help her it means that you're a nice helpful person. Just be with her, hugging kissing and talking to her. And listening to her, this helps a lot.

Love you, a lot of hugs and kisses for you sweet Yvonne^^
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 12:35 (UTC)
Thanks Gloria,im just useless at this kinda thing but I guess just being there is all I can do.
xoxox
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Lyn: CATS HUGGLESspike7451 on 27th January 2010 13:18 (UTC)
What sad news, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.

I hugged her and kissed her and told her how sorry I was

....I'm sure that helped.
Yvonne Reidyvonnereid on 27th January 2010 13:59 (UTC)
I honestly hope so Lyn,its good to have you on my flist hon,have seen many of your posts.
xoxoxox